Intro: I have not had a blog in many years. The last time I was regularly blogging was when I was married. Through the divorce and after, it became a war of words not just with him but his new mistress and even people in other countries who felt it necessary to 'chime in' on his behalf. I abandoned my blog and deemed it a negative. However, in the last year or so I have seen how it can be a positive way to communicate thoughts, ideas and other randomness. And since I need a creative outlet that is more stimulating than just watching shows online or spending all day surfing YouTube... here's what you get!
Old movies and modern idealsI watched a couple of old classics over Easter holiday.
Easter Parade and
Singing in the Rain. A strange thing popped into my head. I stared at these great beauties of the past - Anne Miller, Judy Garland, Debbie Reynolds - and thought that they looked kind of chubby! As soon as I'd thought it I realized how absurd it was. But I live in a world of size 2's and even 0's as the ideal. Where emaciation is somehow more desired than healthy and fit. Now granted there are those individuals out there who are just tall and thin by nature and my experience is that they wish they COULD gain weight, but the percentage of the actual population is minute!
So what's my point? Well I know that Heavenly Father's Plan of Happiness involved us coming here to receive a body. I know that there were spirits in the pre-earth life that chose to follow Lucifer and cannot come to Earth to recieve this great blessing. I know they are not banished in the Greek sense to some underworld with no influence in ours. In fact, they have greater and greater influence each day! If you were angry about not receiving a body, wouldn't it make sense to try and get anyone who did to believe how hideous it is, to not take proper care of it, to use it for fornication and lascivious pursuits? If you were trying to bring the bodies down...
I may not be a size 2 - not since I WAS two! - but I can be gloriously gorgeous! I am my own kind of beautiful. Heavenly Father values variety, just look around at the fantastic world he created! He doesn't want us to all fit in the same mold, or He would have made us that way! He wants us to love and appreciate each other for our unique talents and personalities, not get stuck on brand names, technology and who has the most toys!
In closing this ramble I want to speak to anyone who has ever thought they were less because of an unfair ideal:
You are beautiful!
You can be anything if you are willing to put forth the effort!
You are worth loving!
You can give love!
You have the opportunity for great things daily!
You can choose to live in light and happiness!
You are loved! I love you, because I know where we all came from and the potential we have. I know my Father loves you, that you are my brother/sister as surly as the sun shines!
May you find your joy!
God Bless!
-The Mirandom
note: I am LDS (
http://www.lds.org/) and do not apologize for speaking truth. If you have questions or comments, please keep it clean and respectful. I will endeaver to do the same!